We always jump into conclusion. With no background searching, with no personal experience, with no knowledge of a particular subject, we make our own assumption regardless whether it will hurt us or not. That is just us. A mere human being. Even though there is a part of us wanting to be positive, there will always be a fragment that oppose. It will grow and eat us up to the point that we can lose our confidence to a person, a system or anything.
The beautiful thing about religion is we have something to turn ourselves to when we are down and hopeless. When we have no insight of what will be happening in the near future, we pray just for the best thing to happen. If the outcome not as what we want it to be, there's a saying " when God closes a door, He opens a window." And the statement is not a total BS you know.
Writing from experience.
The assumption sometimes will lead to hurtful things that we cannot imagine. Yes, it's a relief to be able to say "sorry" but yet the scar is still there. I hope all are forgiven and if possible, not to be remembered at all.
Moral of the story ; Listen to both sides of a story before you jump into conclusion.
Happy Mondays everyone!