Stressed

Hi

I have exam. but who cares anyway?

I read a post of a medical student who is struggling with depression and it affected me quite a lot actually. Not because I suffered the same condition. But let's face it. I am a skeptic. I don't really get it when people say they are depressed to the point of having panic attacks at the smallest thing. Although I find that the field of psychiatry itself is interesting, dealing with the complexity of human mind, I scoffed a lot during psychiatry classes. Not because I am having the tendency of being an evil and insensitive lot but, just because I do not understand how is it possible for some people to have this overwhelming feeling that is not well under their control.

I admit, we as the"general population" just don't understand. How these kind of minds work. We take it very lightly to what a person feels. Just because a large portion of us are able to overcome our stresses, we forget that a minority of us could not. We are different by all means. The flaw that I think most of us have is that we tend to judge and group ourselves into this same set of thinking.

If I am stressed and I feel good by eating, that does not mean my friend sitting next to me feel the same way too by gorging down on food. If I am bothered by my marks that I got in exams, does not mean that my friend next to me is feeling the same way too. Everybody has a way of coping but we forget that not everybody copes well.

I just hope I am being more empathetic to people around me.

I am under a lot of stress but thankfully, not depressed.

It has been long since I love Fridays.

tomorrow is holiday. hence the love. 

There are times when I just simply think, I am done with politics. I am not going to get to know about anything since most of the things in the news are hurtful and unfair. Sometimes, I just think that to live ignorantly, not knowing of anything that is beyond my reach or, of that which does not affect me directly, is a bless and a pure bliss.

I read something or hear it before, that human beings are capable of pushing all the negatives aside, and still capable of living their day as if they have no worries. Like you know you will be dead somehow, yet you still work and repeat it every single day. Like you know all the bad things going on in the world, yet somehow you manage to wake up the next morning as if nothing really happen.

Darn, my professor's daily ramblings of trying really hard to be philosophical has paid off I think. He told us every single day, that we need to think. varicose veins are not important. lets not discuss this. lets discuss about life. The other day, he asked me what is the meaning of truth? and yeah, I was thinking about it the whole night. Bravo sir. You made me think. He kept on rambling that he knows the direction of the truth though he may not know what the truth really is and all of us are not in the direction of truth. Somehow, his eyes are trained on me when the "truth" subject came up. He talks a lot about being true. Whatever that means to him. I want to tell him that truth is what one perceives to be real.

I would like to explain it in the term of religion since he brought up religion a gazillion times. Not that I resented it but y'know I am attending clinical postings here not comparative religion studies. I would like to tell him that I believe my religion is the truth and my religion is what I perceived to be real. But in this case, he will not see my religion is the truth since well, he does not perceive it to be real. I will lay down facts on why I think my religion is the truth and so will he. But we will not believe each other even if the other party is true anyway since we are firm in our belief system because we believe what we want to believe i.e our religion is the truth. In the end, there is no clear cut definition to what truth really defines. But well, he never lets anyone speak anyway. Or if someone did, he'll just say we are bullshitting him.

I also managed to get daily teachings of Hinduism from him but he never really let me intercept him with my poor knowledge of Islam. I don't really mind to get extra knowledge on religions. But it just bugged me to take a case which never really got discussed. Yet we stood there for hours to hear him ramble about music kills your soul as the demons get into you through your ear buds. At the end of the day, we just smile and nod. Are you lazy? Yes we are. Am I mad? Yes you are*nods enthusiastically*

On a bright side, he is a funny guy. We laughed a lot in his class because he is sarcastic like hell and smiled his creepy smile after scolding people for no reasons. We ended up confused whether to take him seriously or not. And he keeps on calling us buggers. What really came into my mind is booger.

and with that, I am out.

Hello.

“The decision to be positive is not one that disregards or belittles sadness that exists. It is rather a conscious choice to focus on the good and to cultivate happiness, genuine happiness. Happiness is not a limited resource. When we devote our energy and time to trivial matters and choose to stress over things that ultimately are insignificant, from that point, we perpetuate our own sadness and lose sight of the things that really make us happy and rationalize our way out of doing amazing things.” - Christopher Aiff

Need to be happy more and be less stressed over everything. Well, I am a happy camper today. I just hope to continuously be one as many days to come. 

frittata is a fancy name for omelette

I am getting old. My muscles are sore. LOL. That's what you get for running with no proper training. Last time, all I did was walking and finished majestically in the last place. This year, I am determined to run, no need to disclose which place I got but for sure it's better than the last time. Wahaha. Man, I am ashamed if I run with my dad. He runs better and faster and further. Maybe I should take up running but it is just impossible to wake up early and run.  Next year, if there is anything that will involve running, I will make sure to sit out as checkpoint lady.

Medicine is so discouraging nowadays. I am discouraged. I don't know.

I have exam again. I wish I could do something more productive and challenging aside from sitting with a book in front of me. Weather is not helping. Looking forward to go back and see the family. Itupun few months from now, I hope.

New hospital is going to be launched soon. To prove a point when I say this hospital is freaking huge. I got lost the other day trying to explore. on top of that, no cell phone coverage. WTH? Luckily I went with some friends. Anyway, the president is coming. We are not invited since admission with cards only. and no phone no handbag no umbrella is allowed in. Fancy that. But whatever. Monday is holiday. Yippee.

p/s: I read MOfrust's blog, I think though it is sometimes depressing but it can be quite entertaining on a different note. But if you read Pagalavan, he will just leave you depressed and worried. Heh.

Life update. Meh.

September is coming O.O

Anyway this month I was having way too much wedding invitations and birth announcements. Not really shocking or anything. I know that I have reached "that age" but I'm just annoyed because I have passed up way tooo many chances and occasions to be with my friends. One of them already gave birth to a second child. Blergh.

Well, I think I need to update more often but because life here is too dull, there is nothing much I can say. I do update occasionally on Tumblr though but my sister said reblogging moving pictures does not consider as blogging. Whatever ok. Apart from going back home for Eid, in which I did not plan AT ALL.. seriously, I have already prepared myself mentally for celebrating Eid here.. but my family did not believe me and insisted that I will somehow in the eve of Raya will miraculously be on the flight home.I guess their prayers were answered. Thank you so much JSS for the 5 day holidays. We performed eid prayers in KLIA like some expats who didn't have any kampung to go back to.Then we headed to KL. My nenek stays in KL. So much for balik kampung. And I gobbled up so many food. Yeah, home is a happy place. Good food, good company, good atmosphere.

I am done with internals and recently my surgery end posting exam. My unit teachers are all darlings. I mean only two of them but enough to compensate the other two very very much. Coincidentally their names literally mean honey. *cough*cough* But I am just glad another posting is coming. God, how to stand 3 months + in the same posting? Surgery was OK but for now, I think I have enough of ulcers, varicose veins and hernia to look forward to. Somehow I am dreading to enter my final term as a final year student. Miserable ok bila cikgu tanya tak boleh jawab pura-pura pandang siling, pandang lantai. HAHAH

Rupee has gone down again. Time for shopping. Weeeee

obligatory family free style shot without baju raya tho and too masam since the day was hot and dad insisted on having a garden view. few greens here and there is considered as garden in dad's dictionary. 

hobbitsesss

1. Galadriel: Mithrandir... Why the hafling? 

1. Gandalf: Saruman believes it is only great power that can hold evil in check, but that is not what I have found. I found it is the small everyday deeds of ordinary folk that keep the darkness at bay. Small acts of kindness and love. Why Bilbo Baggins? I don't know. Perhaps because I am afraid, and he gives me courage.

In other words, the shorties give other people courage with kindness and love. Bahahahahaha.

Here comes another anticipated monday.

Ramadhannnnnnnnnnnnnn

Ramadhannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
*and syawal* eh eh.


is a lot easier this year because it is rainy season. The only thing I don't like is having classes on Saturday evenings which means no long evening naps..no more. no more.

Have a blessed month ebribadeh.